Like you have your G-spot and C-spot there are a number of nerve endings in your anal area as well. This means that you need to stimulate it to experience the sexual pleasure that it has to offer. Love plugs are a great way to arouse this area and can be used whether you are trying to arouse yourself or your partner.
The butt plugs can also be used for role play. The sensation is highly powerful and you can use it for domination and a submission play.
The love plugs can make your rectum ready for an anal play. This is needed in case you want to try something bigger in your anal area. Using abutt plug gives more pleasure and less pain.
Men should understand that a sex toy is not capable of cuddling or kissing and nor can it give the woman any compliments. All that it does is to add intensity by stimulating the erogenous zones of a woman that a man may never find or may not know if it exists. This includes the U-spot, the A-spot, and the G-spot. These areas are very sensitive to women.
Most of them who just start to use the butt plugs take time to understand the mechanics of the sex toy and fear if they will do it wrong. So it is best that you start with the simple ones so that you understand how it works. You can opt for the sophisticated or advanced ones later.
The only way that you will know which size you would like is to start by experimenting. Simple toys like the blindfolds can help to distract the woman from their body. Also, the blindfolds can be used on men which will let the lady be more confident. It helps to liberate the women.
For a personal use, the love plugs are much better and recommended. It is way better than opting for a one night stand or going on a bad date.